Interview

• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  The best experience I had with a client was in New York. I was hired for an extended session and he was a pleasure to entertain. He wanted his ass played with while dressed up in gear, so for me it was more ffun than work. The evening passed by quickly and we both had a great fulfilling time. Those rare instances where your professional and recreational interests intersect and the client interaction is more like a social friend than client/*** really makes the night go fast and smoothly and blurs the line between work and play.
• What do you do for fun?
  For fun I like to read, draw, design. I enjoy Sci Fi movies and am a big geek and kid at heart. I love to create and that form takes shape in painting, writing, sculpting, sewing, etc. I grew up in a household of DIYers so there is little I do not know how to do. I find that the power to create is an awesome skill to have. And it allows my imagination to go anywhere knowing that I can probably make it happen no matter what shape it ends up being!
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  Who knows. I'd have to meet all the other ***s before I could even begin to fathom the answer to that question. I do know that I am genuine, friendly, caring, easy to talk to and fun to be with.
  
  The biggest compliment I continually get is first time clients expressing what a great guy they think I am and how they can't wait to meet me after just our initial phone conversation.
  
  Setting the right tone so that the client can eagerly anticipate the first session is highly important and facilitates for a great time by both parties.
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  I have a myriad of hobbies and interests. And quite a few entrepreneurial side projects on the go. I love being creative and staying busy. The wonderful thing about ***ing is that I work for myself and can work as little or as much as I want. It affords me the time and money to pursue my many other interests.
  
  Currently, my main hobbies are painting (you can see some of my work in my profile photos) and attempting to get through my heavy reading list (I read voraciously). I have just recently bought a new camcorder and am learing editing with Final Cut Pro (hopefully you'll be able to see the fruits of my labour in the video section of my profile). I design and art direct part time, write erotica, enjoy my dog's company and, of course, spend a great deal of time at the gym weight lifting and staying fit.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  I love traveling! I specifically moved to London from Canada in order to see more of Europe. I travel when I can afford to. Working for yourself allows more freedom to schedule trips rather than only getting 2 weeks a year. But having said all that, I am also a homebody and love my time in my own space. Like everything in life, it's finding that balance that works for you.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  Simply put, my greatest atribute is Empathy, Ability to Listen, Intuitiveness and the desire to please my client. My growing specialty is in the BDSM variety as I expand my knowledge and experience and then start offering up those to my clients.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  Obviously being an 'older gentleman' I appeal to specific demographic. The tattoos also appeal to those looking for a certain look. I own and enjoy wearing leather and rubber, so the Fetish niche is a given. I'm currently expanding my client base with an offering of BDSM serives. So it's easy to do the math and see the Niches that those variables create. :)
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  That "Extra Mile" is what I call 'customer service' and it varies from client to client. Again, intuition helps to determine what you can provide as that 'something extra special' so that you stand out from the crowd and make them feel special. It could be as simple as just remembering their name. Or a bried chat afterwards. One repeat client enjoys taking me to dinner afterwards (at no cost hourly on their part). It all depends on the client. And it behooves any *** to strive to provide at least some sort of 'extra' in order to facilitate a better customer experience.
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  LOL. There isn't much that I *want* them to know, but if you want juicy personal details: I have an extra lumbar vertabrae and that makes Yoga a bit of a challenge. I took ballet for a year as an adolescent. Spiders scare me. Shopping is my drug. I haven't worn underwear that have an ass in them for over 7 years. I sing in the shower (badly).
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  Gym routine of weights and cardio. Diet of low fat, high protien healthy eating. I rarely drink (if at all), walk or cycle most places, and generally keep very good care of myself. And to be honest, in this business where your body and mind are required to be at their peak, you really can't afford to not take the best care of yourself that you can.
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  When I'm not ***ing I paint, I work as a designer/art director, I read voraciously, I have a small dog, I perform for the adult film industry, I have several entrepreneurial projects that I am pursuing, and of course I spend time with my romantic partner.
  
  The lifestyle specifics that play most prevalently in my life are my creativity and the subsequent need to express myself creatively and my interest in the Fetish/BDSM community.
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  LOL. Is this a trick question? Being an ***, my point of view is that our time spent together is all about YOU. I'm there to listen to what you have to say and to hear your story. Unless your fantasy or desire is to hear my dreary personal details, I would be otherwise engaged in asking questions to draw out information about yourself.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  The absolute 'must know' thing about me is that I am more interested in providing the client with a satisfying experience than filling my date book or bank account. If a client has a specific need or fantasy that I feel that I could not adequately fulfill or one that I felt that I could not provide with a guarantee of complete satisfaction, I would be honest and tell them so rather than fudge my way through it and hope for the best.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  The most interesting part of ***ing for me is meeting a wide variety of people and hearing their story. Everyone is unique and, in my opinion, in order to be a good ***, you have to be a good listener. Most clients come to me with the desire to be heard, to be 'listened to' in terms of asking for their needs to be met. It's not easy for most people to ask for what they want, so it's my job to make them feel safe and comfortable so that they can express those desires. I also have a University degree in Psychology, so I do have an inherent curiousity and fascination with people's sexual needs and desires. And to be honest, it's a lot of fun.
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  Well, beyond the obvious physical needs (i.e.: air, water, food, human touch, intimacy, etc.), I would have to say Books, the opportunity to express myself creatively, setting and working towards personal goals, Mozart in the morning, and a really good cup of coffee.