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Dear RentMen visitors, AlexSebastian chose to answer 6 interview questions that were last updated on 26 Sep 2017

Interview

  • What do you enjoy most about yourself?
    The number of Bawdy Storytelling stories that have featured my left hand.

    (As much as I love bottoming, it's fun to switch it around sometimes...)
  • Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
    One of my favorites was actually a daylong meeting. We spent an evening enjoying amazing food, then back to his hotel to lounge in the hot tub and drink Scotch while we flirted and touched each other and he indulged his foot fetish. He opened me up with exquisite slowness and... maybe I'll tell you the rest in person.

    We took a break, then went to the local sex-positive boutique where we picked out some toys to use during our next round, and I climbed into their cage so he could get a picture to titillate him later.

    I'm always up for helping you indulge as thoroughly as possible and being someone's naughty treat.
  • How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
    I'm dedicated to helping people rediscover and reclaim pleasure.

    As a trans person I've gone through a journey to own my body and the way I experience touch and sensation. That emphasized for me how much our relationship to pleasure impacts everything else in our lives. That's one reason being a companion & sacred intimate is so important to me.

    We all deserve to feel good in our bodies; it's a treat to be able to contribute to that in such a personal way.
  • What are your greatest personal traits?
    I'm very genuine, and this is a true vocation for me. At the same time, I fully enjoy sinking into mutually enjoyable fantasy and role play.

    That combination plus my empathy, open-mindedness, and experience in kink, Tantra and related practices, and hands-on/hands-off sexuality facilitation work make me a great guide for anyone exploring new aspects of themselves... or a skilled and enthusiastic playmate for those looking for something more.
  • How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
    I alternate between the two: time fully immersed in being on the road and cozy time at home cooking, reading, or exploring the constantly-shifting mosaic that is the Bay. It's easy for me to fall in love with a new city or landscape, and I enjoy the process of traveling itself.
  • Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
    Coffee, my cats, the feeling of being surrounded by a city I love. The next two are nearly the same answer: the unique people I've met doing this and erotic connections (both new and returning).