Interview

• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  1: While I am an exhibitionist, and a total pig, I still believe there is always a proper time and place for such interactions
  2: I am a unicorn. My armpits have been pierced since 1990. I have yet to meet anyone else with them or know anyone with them, or ever seen them before. So armpit fetishists... keep that in mind
  3: My very first porn was filmed in 1992, and sexually, it was the worst possible experience I have ever had. The top couldn't perform, (for five days) and nothing worked. We ended up using a stunt dick, (the director's)
  4: I am a HUGE nerd. (like RPG table top with mini's gamer, like lets argue for 30 minutes about the differences between a cart and a wagon, or the differences between darkness and shadow when underground)
  5: When I masturbate it never takes less than an hour. Usually it takes two hours or more.
  6: I'm a published author regarding a topic that has absolutely nothing to do with porn or sex.
  7: I do not/will not tattoo faces or words on my body.
  8: I am fascinated with death photography from the turn of the century (Sleeping Beauty 1-3)
  9: I don't drink, use drugs, eat meat, consume caffeine
  10: I am always debating about shaving off my back hair.
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  When I find something that interests me, I study it from every angle until I understand it as well as I can. Then I share my knowledge with others.
  
  I have studied sex for years. Just having sex is not the same as paying attention to the physical act of sex. How things are done, how specific touch or movement works on men. Sexual interactions are always a chance to practice what I've observed. I pay attention to the responses from my partner/s and keep those responses remembered for future interactions. (If you don't like your nipples played with and a repeat play partner always tries to work over your nipples, its clear he is not paying attention to your body language, facial expressions or noises you may make. Making the entire encounter all about him.)
• What do you do for fun?
  Nap. Read. Work out. Sex.
• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  This question assumes I have already had the best experience. Honestly I cannot answer this because I don't know the answer.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  My willingness to admit when I am wrong. And my love for sex. (Seriously, it's one of my favorite things to do.)
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  My ability to know what a person wants before they do. Working for 31 years in the service industry I have learned how to read subtleties.
  
  I am also extremely patient when it comes to indecisiveness. I am not aggressive and allow others to figure out what it is they want.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  I don't believe I fall into a 'niche'. however, I suppose others would describe me as a daddy 'bearish', muscle bearish, someone called me 'pretty bear' once. I have preferences but at my age I accept that there are always going to be exceptions to the rules. I am attracted to all types, it really depends on the individual and how well he respects himself, physically and mentally.
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  I love napping. Apart from that culinary arts are extremely important to me. I also prefer reading historical non-fiction, and love to put on my headphones and work out.
  
  When I find the time I am also a writer. I've been published and I continue to produce quality essays, humorous anecdotal memoire essays, and recipes.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  I don't travel as much as I would like. I love being in new towns/cities/countries so I can sit and observe the world walk by. I like seeing the commonalities and the differences that humans share - regardless of location.
  
  Having said that, I enjoy being a homebody. I don't require nights of parties or clubs. (they are fun under the right circumstances but I don't hunt them out)
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  no caffeine
  no meat or fish
  no breads/potatoes/pastas
  minimal rice
  no drugs
  no alcohol
  no carbonation
  
  I work out when I find time but I have two jobs that keep me busy roughly 70 hours a week. so the gym is infrequent, however, I walk everywhere.
  I keep myself active as my jobs keep me on my feet and moving all day long
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  I've always had a strong work ethic. I am stubborn and slightly obsessive. I find what I like and I practice that skill until I master it. If my work and my passions coincide then I become an inextinguishable fire.
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  In many points of my life, I have done tasks to prove to others that saw me as 'lesser than', that I indeed can and will be successful in said fields.
  
  Proof, I can or have succeeded in a task that others once believed was beyond my reach, is nothing more than a snub in the face of those who thought lesser of me.
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  First, I wouldn't be drinking wine.
  Second, I would be much more interested to hear about your life. Who you are, what brought you to this place, where you want to go and what you want to do.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I'm genuine. I am an excellent listener. I am unbiased. If I am out in public, I am ALWAYS ready.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  My willingness to appreciate the ridiculous situations I find myself in and that I can laugh about myself.
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  Chocolate…
  
  but honestly, I think I am quite content with my life and don't rely or depend on anything so intensely that I could not live without it.
  
  If I must answer: music, laughter, wisdom, empathy, chocolate. My life would be hollow without these. (sorry if it sounds like I am a total tool. and that it's not an object oriented list)