Dear RentMen Visitors, Recently CTABERXL chose to answer 12 interview questions and his interview was last updated on .
What makes you stand out from the crowd?
In a world where everyone is being recorded, photographed, tweeted, and judged; we’ve developed a society of people who are always caring about what others think. What makes me different? I don’t give a rats a** about what anyone else thinks about me or what I’m doing. I’m here for me. I wear what I want, do what I want, say what I want, and go where I want because after all, its my life so why am I going to let some person on the street dictate my happiness? #fu&^It
If you have to pick one think that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
I’m not actually a bitch, I promise. It’s just my face. I’m come off strong and abrasive but inside I’m just a big fluffy teddy bear full of emotion.
How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
For me, I am never finished. I can always do more, I can always try harder. Like I said before, we’re only alive for so long so why settle at all? I try everyday to achieve more and more and more. While today my goal might be to have $100,000 in savings, tomorrow it might be $500,000 (example). There’s always room for improvement and greatness and once you realize that, you’ll have everything you ever wanted.
What are your greatest personal traits?
I would say my top three greatest personal traits would be...
1. My self awareness. I’m not perfect, in fact I’m far from it. I make mistakes every singe day, sometimes I even make the same mistake five or six times. But if you ask any person that knows me, I will fully admit and acknowledge what I am doing wrong and if I wronged someone, I’ve always owned up to it immediately. Self awareness is definitely my number one attribute.
2. Secondly I would say my professionalism and ability to change for my audience. I think this stems from my career in the aviation and customer service world to which I apply in my daily life. When my wings were on, I was there to serve the passengers and ensure all safety measures were followed flawlessly, when my wings were off I could go right back to my sarcastic, witty, and dry humored self without question. Always knowing your audience is so important, especially these days; you never want to say or do the wrong thing in front of someone.
If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
Well after just one glass, I’d be on my way to being wasted so I would probably give you my entire life story. I tend to be an open book and I love to tell stories about my life and where I come from.
But let’s be honest.. after a bottle or two, there wouldn’t be much talking going on.
What should others absolutely know about you?
I am the most authentic version of myself, I hide nothing and never hold anything back. I’ve been through a lot more than most 28 year olds and I’ve made a lot of mistakes but with every mistake I’ve been able to learn, grow, and become a better person. I live my life with no regrets and I always know tomorrow will bring better days. Some may find my lifestyle to be free spirited and reckless, I find it liberating and educational. I never was one to stay with tradition, rather I was always the one trying to make new of something old. You can always reinvent yourself, it’s never too late. I try and always humble myself and appreciate each day like its’ my last because I know for every second I’m alive there’s a million people that would do anything just to have a few more seconds on earth. So I don’t sweat the small stuff and I appreciate the hell out of the big stuff...
Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
2. Swiss Navy Lube
3. J Lube
4. Tank tops
5. Jock straps
What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
My favorite hobby would before sure be cooking, it allows me to use every bit of creativity I have and to express myself through food. If I’m not out and about in the city, you can find me in my kitchen preparing some sort of new dish.
What do you do for fun?
Cooking is probably my favorite thing to do, while for most it seems like a chore, for me it’s a chance to disconnect from reality and escape into my own world. Second to that I would say I enjoy to just go outside with no plan and see where the day takes me.
How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
Prior to the pandemic, I traveled on a monthly if not weekly basis. I used to wonder how homebody’s did it, to just sit at home all day sounded so boring to me. Thanks to COVID-19, I’ve become one. However I still like to get out as much as possible, if allowed.
What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
I would say I’m a healthy eater, which for the most part is true... but I do love to indulge once in a while. However a typical day to day diet for me includes all home cooked food, no saturated fats, low sugar, and very regiment. Prior to the pandemic I used to workout daily, that has shifted but still enjoy daily exercise of some sort.
What do you enjoy most about yourself?
My quick witted personality and ability to fit into any situation, whether in public or private in the bedroom 😈