Dear RentMen visitors, Fynn chose to answer 16 interview questions that were last updated on 12 Sep 2023
Interview
- How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?Is taking the public transportation system for a few hours per day considered travelling? if yes then i travel a hell lot^^
but seriously, my travel habits always include a specfic reason or target. I'm definitly not the person who travels just go to into some random country for about 2 weeks to afterwards be able to boast about what they have seen of this world. In my opinion - and i try to be as dimplomatic as i can be - thats a recent lifestyle idea that often comes from people who need to prove something (I dont know what it is) to others and I don't think that this should be the main reason for you to get your ass up...
My travel is mostly work related and thats fine by me. - Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.To be fair this question feels somewhat defeatist. " my greatest life experience " aka "rate my life"??? that could take a negative spin real quick:
either
nostalgic bliss of how it was (and isn't like that anymore) might lead you to the conclusion that "your best is behind you" #abitsad
or
you will try to "top" yourself and going into some kind of ambitious rapage of doing more, better, greater,... which ultimately will result that your previous "greatest experience" will be dulled down in your perception and you will lose yourself on the way #notanoption
so for those who have continued to read up until now ^^
i think ONE of my greatest experiences in life is that I have never fallen for the world of social media. Yes, this is a social platform too but I'm talking about all the platforms I do not use: Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, Tiktok, ...- i do have a Facebook acount for those who want to do some digging^^
I am a firm believer that all that virtual BS has alienated a lot of humanity and I chose not to be part of it. My time is worth real interaction in the real world - What do you do for fun?The thing that I certainly do most is falling into moments of thought. Although it might not be apparent from the start, I am quiet an introvert really; so I can dwell for ages in a state of analytic disection of pretty much anything that crosses my mind. fucking love it.
Other than that I read, do sports, weave a dreamcatcher (^.^) . the usual...
Also, I grew up a geek. I'm not skilled at any video games but often the visual stimulation of watching someone else play really pulls me in and I still enjoy it up to this day. I will say though that I'm very much aware of how little productive this activity for fun is but I can't help it - it is what it is XD - How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?I can give you an example:
By sitting down to actually reply to these questions.
I am not just putting in some generic response that people might expect to read. That could be done in far less time, i dare say. But we are given 1200 characters just for this question's answer alone.
And clearly I need them.
Je peux présenter un exemple:
Le fait que je m'assois pour répondre à ces questions devraient prouver quelque chose sur moi.
J'espère croire que mes réponses soient plus approfondies qu'un simple cliché que certains peuvent éventuellement s'attendre à lire ici. J'admets que j'ose dire que ça m'aurait pris moins de mon temps personnel. Mais juste pour la réponse de cette question, on nous offre 1200 caractères.
Et visiblement, j'en ai besoin. - What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?I mean, who doesn't like to have fun. I want to live life to its fullest with everything that brings me happiness.
That might be a book that waits for me on the table. A dinner with my friends. Going to the movies all by myself, with popcorn and all. A vacation to a new destination to see the world...
I hate routine, in doses its obviously fine but I enjoy that there is an element that is different every day, as small as it might be.
Je suis le premier à vouloir vivre ma vie pleinement avec tout ce qui peut m'apporter le bonheur pour moi.
Que ça soit un livre qui m'attend sur la table de chevet. Un dîner entre amis. Aller au cinéma tout seul, du popcorn sucré sous la main. Un voyage vers une destination pour voir le monde...
Je déteste la routine. En allemand on dit "la dose fait le poison" et j'adhère à ça complètement mais j'aime quand il y a un détail qui est légèrement différent chaque jour. Aussi petit que ce détail puisse être. - What are your greatest personal traits?This might come as a shock as its quiet the opposite of what people might think is the answer to this question.
I am a very daring person. I am honest to a point where people might be overwhelmed with what I share and how I share it. I assure you though, that it comes from the kindest of places you could ever imagine. Even if it seems too much to handle at that moment.
Je pense que ma réponse à cette question va bouleverser certains lecteurs parce qu'au premier regard, ce n'est pas ce qu'on attend.
Je suis un personne qui ose taper loin. Je suis honnête au point de poser les questions qui, des fois, semblent être trop lourdes. Je peux assurer que ça vient d'un endroit des plus bienveillants même si je suis consciens de l'intensité des mots. - What is your ‘niche’?I'm not in it for the money.
Let be clear, I do not disrespect myself either. But i have other reasons that are far more important in the long run.
Je ne le fais pas pour de l'argent.
Bien entendu, en aucun cas je tolère un manque de respect envers moi, non plus. Mais je sais que j'ai d'autres raisons. Des raisons qui sont beaucoup plus importantes. - What makes you stand out from the crowd?I think I stand out because I know me.
I'm not only talking about my life, its past and present. But I truely know that I can go within myself and find whatever answer seemed lost.
Une chose qui me distingue est le fait que je sais qui je suis.
Je ne parle pas seulement de ma vie, son passé et son présent. Ça va au-delà. Je sais que je peux me poser pour trouver n'importe quelle réponse qui, au début, me semblait être perdue. - If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?If someone is really willing to know something about me, to understand who i really am, I should mention that I have my faith. I wouldn't say I am religious in the terms of an institution, but I believe in something that guides me. I am a believer.
If you want to know more about this, I would suggest we might talk about it, when we meet on a personal level. This is very important stuff to me. I wouldn't disrespect it by having that conversation in any other way than the real world. Where it matters.
Si quelqu'un est réellement intéressé pour savoir une chose sur moi, quelque chose qui illumine qui je suis, ce serait le fait que je suis croyant.
Pas dans le sens d'une institution religieuse, mais il y a quelque chose que j'ai défini qui me guide. Je suis croyant.
C'est quelque chose qui va tellement profond pour moi, que je n'oserai pas d'en dire plus dans un context virtuel. Si ce sujet semble être intéressant, je propose qu'on en reparle dans la vraie vie. Là, où ça compte. - What should others absolutely know about you?I have no idea but i can tell you a thing that people can know about me if they want to keep on reading ;) ....
I have a sweet tooth. Salty is fine but nothing beats the comfort of a chocolate chip cookie, a queen of delices who reunites the earth and its suffering to create togetherness.
I'm really a cake person though... I mean there is nothing better than a proper coffe-and-cake-moment during the day - some call it tea time - you may call it whatever you want. I just love that cultural aspect in life, even if its a slice of cake on a parc bench, it's sure that we'll have a great time. - What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?I snore?
Je ronfle? - Name 5 things that you can’t live without.I can not live without
Social contact
Music
The absolute silence of a peaceful night
Good sex
And chocolate!!!
Je ne peux pas me passer
du contact social
de la musique
du silence absolu d'une nuit paisible
du bon sex
et du chocolat!!! - What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?If the situation allows it and it doesn't represent any danger for the people involved or a third party, I say YES to everything. It's fantastic because it enlightens you and makes you feel so welcoming about things in life and eventually, they will carry you further on.
Si la situation le permet et que ça ne présente aucun danger pour les gens impliqués ou une tierce personne, je dis OUI à tout. C'est fantastique parce que ça vous procure une légèreté et une ouverture d'esprit qui vous mènent toujours plus loin. - What do you enjoy most about yourself?What do i like most about myself? My way of thinking. In my head, I always make sense (at least to me) =D
Ce que j'aime le plus chez moi? Ma façon de penser. Dans ma tête, je me dis que je me comprends =D - What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?I eat pretty much whatever I feel like but I do sports regularly. Life is too short to not enjoy the little pleasures :)
Je mange ce que je veux mais je fais du sport régulièrement. La vie est trop courte pour se priver du plaisir ;) - If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.I'd guide your attention onto the sounds of your surroundings: the come and go of the waves, a faraway cry of a bird...
I would talk to you about the refreshing breeze that is ever so gently touching your skin...
make you experience the sensation of the grains of sand that slightly tickle you between your toes as you slowly push your feet into that granulous texture...
In a moment like this, I would not dare to talk about myself. I let you live this very moment.
Je guiderai ton attention aux sons qui t'entourent: le va-et-vient des vagues, un cri d'oiseau lointin...
Je te parlerai de la brise rafraîchissante qui touche délicatement ta peau...
Je te ferai remarquer la sensation des petits grains de sable qui te carressent entre les orteils que tu enfonces de plus en plus dans cette texture particulière...
Dans un moment pareil, je n'oserai pas parler de moi. Je te laisserai vivre le moment.