Dear RentMen visitors, HairyBoyMatthew chose to answer 6 interview questions that were last updated on 14 Aug 2021


  • What should others absolutely know about you?
    Love me a good spoon session before bed and waking up in the morning (and I’m open to sharing a bed for overnights), but I have a hard time falling asleep while cuddling, so I tend to roll away once saying goodnight.
  • What is your ‘niche’?
    Guy Next Door could arguably be pretty broad to be considered a niche, but one of my favorite compliments I receive all the time is “You’re just so … Normal!”
  • What do you do for fun?
    I’m a Ravenclaw Professor of Muggle Studies: Hidden Powers (of Non-Magic People) on the longest running virtual Harry Potter website. Joined when I was twelve years old, went through my seven years of schooling which included Quidditch (preferred position is Beater, obviously), student teaching, and a couple years as a Prefect, then left for a 12 year hiatus and came back early 2020 to take on a new roll as Prof., interacting with people from around the world and being a virtual presence and support for people as young as 12 all the way on up.
  • Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
    Professionally I began my sensuous career a decade ago. It was an adjustment in many ways to integrate (my friends and family all know and have been supportive), but one of the main reasons why I’ve loved and stuck with it over the years is the number of times someone’s said “Meeting you changed my life.” It quickly became an addiction to feel like a sort of anchor in these very vulnerable spaces. Whether looking for a fun and comfortable distraction or listening ear and bouncing board while processing the curve balls life tends to throw. I enjoy sharing the journey with others when being in good company can be simply life changing. Personally I consider the relationship my partner to be one of the most precious blessings in my life thusfar. We have our fair share of highs and lows, and in many ways I’m shocked to’ve had four years together now, but I’ve never been with someone I had so much friendship and affection with, nor who (in spite of where we don’t see eye to eye) has continued working through the issues together and shown me by his actions that he loves me enough to try. We got engaged Christmas 2019 then moved into our own home together (cats to come) and I’m so grateful
  • What makes you stand out from the crowd?
    People of all walks of life find it easy to get along with and open up to me. This versatility in connecting so intimately with many different personalities has afforded me the gift of meeting countless wonderful people, learning from and about their experiences, reciprocating a warm, welcoming presence full of mutual care and respect.
  • What do you enjoy most about yourself?
    I have a really big heart, having spent my life practicing compassion for myself and others. “To err is human, to forgive divine.” It’s often times challenging to be kind when our human issues cross swords together, and there are certainly instances when it’s best to take distance from a person or situation altogether, but the ability to sympathize with and be empathetic toward others is something I’ve found to be incredibly worthwhile in my life when it comes to creating an interconnected community of quality individuals, and supporting each other through the difficulties of being alive in these beautiful yet limited forms.