Interview

• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  My lifestyle ilaidbach and go-with-the-flow. I don’t take many things too seriously, least of all myself. That said I have a low tolerance for stupidity and drama. A whiff of either, and I’m outt the d
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  I’m I highly intelligent individual with an Ivy League education and a Masters in Business Administration. But my education does not define all of me. So I am proud of my achievements, I try to stay humble, treat everyone with respect and do unto others. Brains with the brawn and a huge heart are an unbeatable combination
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  I have a perfectionist streak in me that hones in on giving clients the best possible experience I can give them. I’m extremely sensitive to their comfort and happiness that when things do go wrong, I obsess until I correct the issue, or my client begs me to forget about it.
• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  I have had many incredible experiences throughout my life, each meaningful and special in a unique way. Most of them have been achievements and milestones in my life, situations involving family and friends that generally occur once in life, and physical sensations that I’ve never felt before. For me it’s impossible to select just one experience without shortchanging all the other blessings I have had in this short life.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I’m an exhibitionist and a nudist, so wherever I go, my clothes will be off within 30 seconds of entering the apartment. I also get a kick from showing off in public, so you may see me wearing skimpy shorts or slim fit pants that even show the outlines of my foreskin.
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  In my spare time, I enjoy lifting weights, reading about current events, gardening, cooking and traveling. Besides that I truly enjoy spending time with friends, often nude, and exploring my sexuality to the fullest.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  I have a tendency to beat myself up whenever I inadvertently disappoint or hurt another person in any way. But I’m also honest to a fault. Both of these characteristics can sometimes be at odds with each other. Then one will overtake the other. In my circle of friends, I’m the only one I know of who makes the kind of effort I make to keep my word to others and be as candid and honest as I strive to be.
• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  I’m a very methodical man constantly looking for ways to improve my skills, my knowledge, my wellbeing and my health. As a result, I always set goals in life to achieve these improvements. And as I achieve a goal, I set another so that I’m in a constant cycle to become a better person. This ultimately gives me an inner peace that isn’t easily perturbed.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  I really enjoy wearing leather gear, but flogging, bondage, ass play, FF and WS make a date exceptional in my book. I’m open to the fetish world in general, especially when I’m expanding my horizons and pushing limits.
• What do you do for fun?
  I grow my own herbs, and I read a lot. I’m a total political junky.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  While I am a homebody at times, I love to travel to other countries to enjoy and learn about other cultures, histories, languages, you name. It’s always a new discovery for me and when I share it with a fun travel companion, it becomes even more amazing.
  
  I love photography, nature, architecture, dance, art, all sorts of beauty man made or natural. I try to plan at least 1trip a year to someplace I have never been before. The rest of the year I visit friends and family across the country.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  Having spent 25 years working in the information technology world in the publishing industry in NYC, mostly as a director, computer technology has to be my strongest specialty.
  
  Physically people always mention my arms, my chest and almost always my ass. It seems to make a great impression...
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  I work out 5 days a week for an hour, focusing on a specific body part each day. I will spend 3 weeks at a time pushing my muscles to the max, then the next 3 at 50% of my max allowing my muscles to heal.
  
  And since I enjoy cooking so much, I only eat foods without any preservatives or unnecessary ingredients. I pile on plenty of protein, vegetables and greens at each meal, even breakfast.
  
  I do all of this so I could have 1 guilty pleasure twice a week: chocolate mousse or créeme brûlée. 😁
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  I would tell you how connected to the ocean I feel. It has an incredibly calming influence over me, reminding me to slow down to admire the never ending waves. My life at times takes on a rapid pace and I forget that I’m surrounded by natural beauty all around me in San Diego.
  
  The ocean, combined with great food and a great conversation, and I would have my 3 all time favorite experiences simultaneously. I would be in Nirvana!
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  I love that I’m an easygoing guy with a voracious curiosity about a wide array of interests. I truly appreciate and enjoy meeting new people, pushing my limits and experiencing everything I could possibly experience sanely in life. I only have this life, so I intend to make it count!
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  1. My health
  2. Awesome friends and family
  3. My iPhone
  4. Great food
  5. The impulse to experience everything in life