Interview

• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  I'm pretty laid back when it comes to special interests. Got something unconventional you want to try? Let's explore together. Chances are I haven't done it either. I want you to feel absolutely comfortable with me. When we're both in a place of comfort and vulnerability, thats when we can go to some amazing places together. I'm kind by nature but know how to turn on severity when its consensual. Let's talk about it!
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  I've got an amazing attention to detail. I'm great at listening and reading body language. I love to give and am great at making people feel valued! When I'm alone with someone, I see them and accept them. One-on-one, I see people as whole beings exactly where they are.
• What do you do for fun?
  Love to dress up nice and go out or stay in for movie night. I love thrillers, sci-fi, and period dramas. I make time to read whenever I can. My absolute favorite is being in nature and forgetting the city for a few hours. I have many interests and approach all of them full of curiosity and passion.
• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  A special person in my life flew me out to spend the weekend at a hot springs with him. This was while I was on break at school and it couldn't have come at a better time to be honest! We were so relaxed and comfortable with each other that it added to an incredibly intimate 3 days together of soaking up the healing of the water and getting to know the other better. I'll never forget it.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  I'm still going for a BFA degree. I got interested in school late in life. I had more of an interest to live life without bounds before succumbing to rigid structures. Now that I've had a chance to live life according to my measures I'm able to value and appreciate my studies so much more.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  I have an amazing ability for meeting people where they're at in life. Beyond what you're into behind closed doors I make sure I have a genuine interaction with you.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  I leave NY several times a year and try to leave the country at least once a year. I'm happy and filled with a sense of adventure when I travel.
  I also love to be home, close to my books and cast iron pan.
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  -Love & Compassion
  -To talk to a friend at least once a day
  -Vegetables & fiber!
  -Music
  -My leather trousers
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  When I have free time, outside of the day job, my studies and the gym, I enjoy reading books. I enjoy sci-fi, fantasy, graphic novels, philosophy and books on art. I make digital art as well as sculptures, photographs, paintings and various music/sound pieces. I've performed and toured with numerous musical acts.
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  My mind is very open. I've moved more times than I'm years old. I've traveled in punk bands, queer nomadic tribes and with my family. I grew up in the Netherlands mostly in a strict religious household which is what I attribute my penchant for freedom to. Growing up so culturally diverse has given me a taste for art, travel and literature. I prefer to operate on the margins, left of the void, but love to blend in. Undercover freak.
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  Where do I start? Uhm, ask me about my tattoo?
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  "I want to be in porn. Let's wait for the sun to rise and you can be my costar. We can shoot it on my phone. Whaddya say? Is there any wine left in that bottle?"
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  My health is my priority! Also, you get the respect you give. Please come correct, if at all. Thank you.
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  I do fasted training. I eat lean proteins (chickens, fish, legumes) and complex carbohydrates. I use vitamin and mineral supplements, no chemicals! I prepare all of my own food and enjoy eating vegetarian when possible; I'm a great cook!
  I work out 4-6x per week. My day just doesn't feel right if I don't move around. Eventually, I would like to have biceps as big as my head. Would love to leave my day job and devote more time to fitness and bodybuilding.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  Furry, gingery city boy. Arty and smart. Next level boyfriend experience.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  My capacity to give, connect and relate to others. Empathy! As far as physical traits go: I love my hairy chest, big cut ****, creamy complexion, freckles and the heart shaped vein on my s****** (I'm serious! You'll have to see for yourself).