Interview

• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  I don't feel that it should be considered that exactly, hut one thing I have always been sort of a caregiver at heart. I love helping those that are less fortunate or that are struggling through hard times. Which is the basis of why I started my company and the main focus of what we do to give back the community.
• What do you do for fun?
  I enjoy hosting dinners at my house and cooking for friends or family. I think that preparing a meal for someone is a sign of love, and the experience of sharing a meal is something special. Through conversation guests can share about their day, their week, problems and achievements to be recognized for. In my spare time, I am also an artist and love to play golf.
• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  I would have to say that coming out was probably the most rewarding experience. Being that I spent most of my childhood in the south (Texas), coming out didn’t seem like a good idea. That was until O moved to WI after I graduated high school. There I began to come out of my shell and start to really understand and accept myself for who I was. Which made it not only easier to come out as gay but also to identify as a gay man. Without this move, I might have still been closeted today.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  My greatest attribute in my eyes, unfortunately often times also becomes one of my greatest faults. I have always been the type to apply all of my resources mentally, physically and often time financially. Because of my desires and passion to help others, I open myself up for people to take advantage of my generosity.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  Everyone of my visits is like show and tell, and do I have a few surprises up my sleeve. I also prefer group rather than the one on one but I’m open to anything. I’ve got a lot of friends who like to come and play as well sum are featured on here and some are not. But profiles will be available upon request. I’ve got gear for every fantasy and my top favorite are... coach disciplines team members for misbehavior, brothers go deep for curiosity, Pups gone wild, and wet behaviors. You let me know what you’re looking for and I’ll make sure to please!!!
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  My personality is definitely one in its own. Best described like this; it's like a thirteen year old farm girl, meets Robin Williams onh I should 4th scotch rear ended by Kathy Griffin and Adam Sandler driving a short bus. I have no filter and often say things without thinking them through first. I like to be the center of attention and make a point to say hello to everyone at a party or event, even if I don't know them. I will talk to anyone about anything and like to make everybody feel welcome and comfortable with who they are.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  I enjoy traveling, unfortunately my job does not make it easy to be gone often for vacation. I'd love to be on vacation, all-inclusive in the ocean right now.
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  I mean of course I have a gym membership, I just lost the paperwork and key tag and can't seem to remember which gym I joined and prepaid the full year... I work out as much as my mother did when she was 8 1/2 months pregnant with me. LMAO
  Honestly I am very active, my job keeps me on my feet 8-12 hours a day and I am naturally high in energy and never stop going and going and going and going! I also play sports in Chicago throughout the year with the CMSA league. I like to think I am a very active person. As far as the diet goes, well if it goes in my mouth and I can get it from a drive through, I'm a happy camper. Seriously though, I attended culinary school and have worked in the industry for 15++ years. I love to cook and try to do so using health conscience meal planning and fresh raw ingredients. But let's be real, my ass is too lazy after a 12 hour day to be doing all that so I frequent my favorite watering hole McDonald's a few of five times a week! Don't tell my mom.
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  Well most importantly I wake up every day and plan on doing something positive to make this day better than the last. Most of the time I get sidetracked and or stoned and lose my way. Then I just try to make sure I have a pair of shoes, my phone, wallet and keys. Something to ensure I stay hydrated and then a stock of Ben & Jerry's ice cream in the freezer for when I forget what it is I was trying to accomplish and give up and retire to the couch for the evening.
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  Well, there is of course many character defects that make me less than perfect. Fortunately these are the very things that makes us who we are and gives us the power of individuality. Though some of mine are tedious and annoying at times, I try to embrace them and use them to my advantage when I can. The biggest one that doesn't take long for people to catch on to is my "self diagnosed" OCD! Most of the time it is the but of a funny joke or a simple stare from a loved one or close friend. But what most people don't know is what this so called disorder does to me emotionally. It sounds silly but it constantly eats away at my and leaves me with the feeling of complete loss of control. It affects me in one way or another everyday of my life. Today I am able to remind myself that it is not always a negative quality. I always have things in order, by color, or date, or size, or by season, maybe by age, or length, or height... see what I mean. And then I see something shiny! woof woof!!!
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  If we were enjoying exactly that scenario, I would be sure to not leave any time for talking. Once we were done embracing each other and rolling around in the sand a little, I suppose we could lay there looking into the stars, sipping a little bubbly. I would most likely be much more interested in hearing all about you and your story rather then aimlessly talking about mine. I am the kind of person to make everything all about you and making sure you feel like a king! (or queen!)
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  All must know that they are in for a challenge. Many have tried to "tie me down". Trust me it won't work, you're not going to change me, calm me down, get me to quit, start, or continue to do something that I don't want to do. With that being said, I am an extremely caring and giving person. I only pretend to be an asshole when it is warranted by another persons actions or behaviors. And as for my witty, crude and just plain tasteless, unfiltered sense of humor goes, beware of sharing too many secrets with me. I just might end up using it for my own humorous gain.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  The thing that I enjoy most about myself, is that I always stay true to myself. Regardless of what is right or wrong or from fear of being different, even judged or looked down upon. I am who I am, and I am comfortable with that person and if someone has a problem with the choices I make in my life, the door is always swinging both ways!
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  Oreo cookies, ice cream, friends, family and my dog!