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Dear RentMen visitors, Roman_Blck chose to answer 16 interview questions that were last updated on 22 Dec 2021

Interview

  • If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
    When I go to the mall, I outright refuse to hold my own shopping bags. So much so that I have, and still do pay folx to go shopping with me just so they hold my bags while I go from store to store. LOL
  • How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
    What someone is comfortable enough to do around you, they are willing enough to do it to you -- R.Blck

    Boundries are SOOO important in life, and they are always, 100% of the time about the person whose boundry it is. There are certain behaviors I will NOT accept around me, and this I do not engage in this behavior either. On the flipside I hold myself to a different standard and will not accept anything less. ;) <3
  • What do you do for fun?
    Read, I read a lot of books, and i have a secret hobby that I MAY let you in on one day. :)
  • What makes you stand out from the crowd?
    Nothing in particular makes me stand out from the crowd, yet that same nothing is how I stand out from the crowd. I have a motto that I live by, "Be Selfishly; Selfless".

    Meaning in order for me to show up for my friends, family, folx, fcks in my ENTIRITY;
    I first need to show up for myself, with myself, and to myself.

    <3
  • How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
    I try to travel as often as possible... even with MISS CODY VICTORIA running amok I just cant sit still for too long.

    When I am at home I am a home body - like when I am in Grand Rapids, I am at MY HOME, READING, SLEEPING, EATING, ETC.

    When I am out & about I am exploring - like when I am in YOUR city, I am soaking up the sun, trying local foods, walking around etc.
  • What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
    Do Tacos, and Netflix count??

    Its a blessing and a curse to be naturally thin... I can eat whatever I want, and yet I still get accused of having some kind of eating disorder or another...

    In all seriouseness I eat ALL THE TIME, and Traditional Mexican Lengua Tacos are my fav!!
  • What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
    My lifestyle is controlled chaos. It's kind of like Mambo Number 5. Great Song, but sporadic, but also you can't not dance when it pops onto the radio! :) I love to sing badly while I clean, and I rearrange my home every 1-3 months. :) It's a good life, its my life!:)
  • If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
    My biggest fear is being home during a home invasion and I don't eat any green or yellow colored candy. The first one is kind of obvious, but as far as the candy goes... I am CONVINCED (albeit self convinced) that green and yellow colored candy is poisonous.

    I don't know why or how or when that occurred, but all I know is I ain't risking my life for no green skittle.

    <3
  • What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
    Besides eat tacos and explore music, I have been reading a lot more. In 2022 I am only going to be reading queer and/or Black authors, so feel free to recommend something. :)
  • Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
    There is not one moment I can choose to be "the best moment" there are too many, however I once saw a romantic movie where the lead casually asked their potential new love interest an amazing question... They asked,"Imagine you can bottle memories like you can bottle up a scent, so that anytime you want to relive it all you had to do was open the bottle; if you could, what memory would you want to preserve"?
  • What are your greatest personal traits?
    My greatest personal traits would have to be my unwavering sense of self, & creating a space of comfort for all that have the pleasure to enter.
  • What should others absolutely know about you?
    I love music... Yes ALLL genres of music, and I also ask super random/dumb questions in order to get to know folxs on a deeper level.

    Example: If the "Purge" was put in place in the real world would you participate, and how, and why?!

    See random, but it makes you think and open up to unlimited possibilities! :)
  • What is your ‘niche’?
    My "niche" is I am just that boy-next-door type, but with a couple of hidden secrets... ;)
  • What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
    I am comfortable with being vulnerable with myself and others.
  • What do you enjoy most about yourself?
    I enjoy my authenticty the most about myself. A lot of people say they are "real", but in all honesty they are simply trying to hide behind a facade that only showcases their "good" qualities. When I say I am authentic I am saying I am flawed, I am human, I am growing!
  • Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
    Hulu, Lyft, Music, Tacos, Beer