let’s make it quick easy, then slow and hard ;)

Easy-going, confident, and affectionate top guy here, based in SOMA (12th/Folsom) and available now, for late nights, extended / international travel, etc. Love a non-rushed time together where a connection grows naturally and comfortably.


I enjoy a wide range of interests and a developed list of turn-on’s with a tendency to try anything once. I’m a Berkeley grad and published writer, originally from LA, who has lived and worked abroad in Barcelona and Amsterdam.

I pride myself on being a sensitive and in-tune communicator; and I’d say that SEX is my first language. We’re a good match if you enjoy taking on a passive role sexually and want to feel safe in the hands of a confident top who can do to you what you need done in a deeply intimate and exciting way. I like to call the shots but i’ll let you decide: bed or sling?



⭐️ 5/5 REVIEWS OVER 5 YRS

I am an honest guy who cares about people and doing the right thing. I’m the man who needs to leave his mark and be missed.

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