Interview

• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  The thing about me that I would want everyone to know is that I am an avid adventurer at heart and would drop anything I am doing in a heartbeat (minus obvious obligations) to see somewhere new, experience a thrill, or bond with nature.
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  I sing and play on the Djembe (African Drum), mix house/electro music privately (not an actual DJ), dance frequently, write short stories and poetry, and enjoy photography.
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  I walk it. I've walked alot, in fact so much so that I can say my carbon footprint is a light as a feather compared to some. I live in the moment, which is both a gamble and a blessing. I take risks, though as I approach 40 years old they are starting to become less intense.
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  I have been on the 'eat when you can, how you can, with who you can, as healthy as you can' diet. Life has been throwing me not under the bus, more like in the luggage compartment. So I'm forced to eat cheap, and believe it or not, I get my four small square meals in, monitor fatty foods, and dance nearly every day. Dance and occasional strength resistance workouts are my go-to for exercise.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I'm a hopeless romantic who understands his 'luck', but no longer believes in such a tragedy, as luck has really never gifted me anything in the way of a comfortable life. Sure, I have had experiences, but only at the cost of the worst experiences prior to. I have never held on to nor really cared for money or having more of it, yet realize it's importance in our so-called reality. And I love philosophy, the debates we make regarding the unanswerable questions, but never take a side so as to continue enjoying the company I am in. I listen.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  If by 'niche' you really want to know my superpower, then its manifesting the current mood I am in, as well as managing moods brought on from any other energy.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  How little I talk about myself.
• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  My first rave. Simple. I can remember the experience vividly, sometimes ask myself whether or not that will resurface.
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  Im husband material, total dad-to-be. But interested first in making up the time I could have had entertaining the idea that the search for him can come from either direction.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  My Dick. It stands out. I usually wear loose shorts too.
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  Relaxed and happily uninvolved in current events, and with ignorance giving way to bliss, remaining involved in what matters most to local interests. And music (singing it mixing it and dance)
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  At some point, I would probably end up telling you about my claim to fame: being on TV. Which then would probably turn into a conversation about where I've lived in the country, my need to visit New Orleans, how only recently I have begun to indulge myself in thrill-seeking activities, and then stories of the people that I have had the pleasure to live with so far. It seems to come out more frequently then other answers to 20 questions. Of course, sex and kinky thoughts are assumed part of the conversation with a sexy man. I just make sure to involve more brain power than simple sex talk. Meaning, I enjoy talk about philosophy and the unknown, the universe, etc.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  Humble and aware of social reality, empathizing, patient, and loyal.
• What do you do for fun?
  Dance with or without fire! Poi, staff, various other equipment to display the light show I m thinking up. That, or I am cooking up something Cajun!
  I also drum (and sometimes I'll sing) on the Djembe. Write. Hike and talk with anyone.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  Within the US, frequently. I am still dreaming of the first trip across either pond. Can't wait to see this world.
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  Nature, Music, Laughter, Freedom, Fishing.
  
  What can I say? I'm one part outdoors guy and one part hippie. Not that concerned about what I am or am not up to par with in terms of knowing who's who or what labels are being worn. Not saying any of that is beneath me, I simply turned off TV and social media platforms so I wouldn't find myself drooling in a corner tapping a blank screen having lost it.
  
  Nature is a quickly fading beauty. I want more of her.
  Music keeps me sane.
  Laughter is no doubt medicine.
  Freedom is taken for granted, so I respect that.
  And fishing. Because fish tacos from the same day's catch is why I do it.