Interview

• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  Working out, reading, learning, cooking, puzzles, and new experiences
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  My lifestyle is peaceful, inquisitive, and easygoing. I used to subscribe to the fast-paced way of life & recently I've traded that in for a life that brings me much more joy. I love being around people because I have been told that my energy is the kind of energy that can lift you out of a bad day. Nothing brings a smile to my face more than knowing that I changed the trajectory of someone's downward spiral. I try to meditate and practice compassion for those who share this space we inhabit.
  
  Beyond that, I am always wanting to learn more or learn the "why" behind things. Learning how something or someone works fascinates and entertains me so much! Everyone lives different lives meaning that everyone is a wealth of information and experiences different from our own. Its important to me to not be in an echo chamber and to not only hear the other side of the story but to try and understand it.
  
  I don't understand the need to create chaos and drama in one's life. By its nature life is going to be turbulent so I try to not let things get me worked up. What happens in our lives is often out of our control, what we can control is how we react to those situations.
• What do you do for fun?
  I enjoy riding my longboard, doing various creative things with my hands, & reading. I am more "old school" mentality when it comes to reading and prefer to read actual books. Usually, I am learning something new whether it be a new craft, a new way of thinking, or even a whole new concept I am not familiar with. Ask me about what I'm currently learning about is a great conversation starter.
• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  that I am the most loyal person and will follow you to the ends of the earth if you show me that same respect. My values and morals are cemented in a belief that every action has a reaction and what goes around comes around. I am the kind of guy that no matter what I will be in your corner with whatever it is that i can do for you in times of need.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  Making people feel welcome, wanted, heard, seen, at peace, and that they matter. This is something that again I can't explain how but it's been an ability I've had since I was a child. Countless people have told me that they love being around me because I change the mood of a room or make a bad day not so bad. Sometimes complete strangers will open up to me and divulge something that they rarely mutter outside of their own thoughts. I wouldn't change this for the world, I love being a sage haven for those who are weary and neglected.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  I have always had an understanding of what people are actually saying even though they aren't saying it. As I grew older I came to understand that this came from having a level of empathy that many people don't have.
  
  This plays out in interesting ways, let's take sex for instance. I can innately know what the other person wants or doesn't want and respond accordingly. When there is a change in the mood of a group or a room of people I am able to know. My *** is exponentially better than most and is 9/10 correct. I also rarely get one "pulled over on me" because something will tell me that said person is bad news and to stay away.
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  I would tell you how blessed & grateful I am for being who I am and having the journey I have had. A good portion of life is all about where you focus your attention. There would be many stories of a young kid from a small town being reckless through his adolescence. After that, the story would go into a young gay man coming of age that's been filled with amazing sex, great friends, and even a few love stories. The cliffhanger would be the real attention grabber. With the world of possibilities at his feet and a drive that knows no ends, where will the story go? Will he end up happy? Maybe you'll just have to come along for the ride and find out for yourself. ;)
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  My empathy. I've been crazy emotionally intuned to not only my emotions but the emotions of those around me. Nothing needs to be said for me to know that something is wrong, or to know if the mood has suddenly changed. This understanding also gives me a maturity that puts many at ease. In today's society where most of the general population runs from their emotions. Not only do I not run from them but I understand and express them in a healthy way.
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  I like to always be learning something. I will often take up new endeavors just to learn, experience, and grow as a human being. There is way too much to try and do in this world for anyone to be bored. Its kind of sad that continued education is considered the "extra mile."
  
  I take pride in my appearance and how I come across to people. That being said I have an extensive routine that I do to get fresh in the morning and dapper in the night time. Smell is the strongest sense tied to memory! So dont be remembered by stinky socks or body odor! Take that extra mile and put on that expensive cologne.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  I get compliments on my hazel eyes more than any other feature. They change colors with what I am wearing & my mood. Like the rest of me, my eyes are intense and deep. ;) I am very in touch with my feelings & intuition. Being in touch with my own emotions allows me to be able to pick up on the emotions of those around me. I can be calm and comforting, or rowdy and rambunctious all depending on the night and how you are feeling. Taking care of others has always been second nature to me. It brings me comfort to know that the other person is comfortable and taken care of.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I am VERY forward and outspoken. I don't believe in beating around the bush or being passing aggressive. That being said mama did not raise anything but a well mannered gentleman. I will remain respectful while speaking my mind.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  Growing up poor and then being on my own has made it impossible to travel. It makes me sad because there are so many beautiful things in the world. I have never seen the ocean, been to NYC, never really left the midwest. I would love to change that tho.
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  I am one of those guys that can eat anything and not work out. I am sure someday that my metabolism and then I will start working out.
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  A good book- (The Host or The Hunger Games series)
  A sense of purpose- It's important for me to feel like I am a giving back in some fashion. I don't want to just take or be complacent.
  A creative outlet- I am very creative soul and love to show it to people. Without some way or expressing my creativity I get into a funk.
  Deodorant- I am a scent person. It's the strongest sense tied to memory. Having a scent can make a huge long lasting impression
  A sexy jock strap- while I fully support nudity, I am not comfortable just running around naked. I will however strut my stuff in a jock strap! ;)